You have been the secret girl all along. We’ve crossed paths before our first breath… the greatest gift the universe had to offer. Luck, whatever it may be, I’m happy I get to see your morning eyes. You are latched against my heart, and with you, I’m more than whole. Whenever our eyes first connected, I knew you seemed familiar. How you were the girl of my dreams, and suddenly you became my reality. It’s miraculous, don’t you think? Every time we share a kiss, it feels like roaring fireworks in the night sky or moving stars that show no…


Disappointment is a natural part of life. One of the most promised things to happen to you. A friend, a parent, a lover… anyone with a beating heart or energy floating around on this planet can lead you to disappointment. Even yourself… and people even advise not to exceed your hopes that can lead to disappointment.

But this advice is an opportunity blocker. This advice can lead to even more disappointment…

Wait, Huh?… What?

Think about it. If I were to tell you to not get your hopes up on a person you love. You fantasized about a dream that you wanted to…


There are so many factors that can contribute to this question. Parents forcing you to go to college, degree advantages, degree disadvantages, money, etc. The crucial question you should ask yourself…

Will college benefit me in the long run?

Does Your Degree Guarantee You A Job?

If you the college student are grinding for a specific major such as computer science, doctor, business, coding, or any other specific fields… then you are more than likely to get a job. You can easily research your specific major and degree to see if your line of work has a high demand. …


We all know this is such a recurring thought that loops between your ears. Should I talk to them again? Will they still see me the same? Did they move on? Questions that make your chest hurt or stomach ache. I know this can be a hard path, but let us evaluate the situation.

How Deep Do You Feel For This Person?

Remembering all the goofiness your crush did. The songs they sang out loud. The cute names they gave you. The sounds they made whenever they’re doing a task. You’re holding onto your pillows at night to get the same feeling as holding onto the person you…


This topic is heavily common but not talked about equally. Not having a close relationship with your siblings, especially as an older sibling, can lead to a certain type of guilt. However, the troubling part is not changing the circumstances or reaching out… it’s cutting down that divide in between.

Oftentimes siblings can push the buttons of boundaries that can pull you away from growing with them. Age difference can also contribute to the barrier. Let’s face it… just because you came out of the same vagina doesn’t mean every sibling has your personality. Every individual is unique in every…

Shane Phillips

I’m a whore for loneliness shanephillips070@gmail.com

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